Praying to stay put

So, since last week, Dan has recovered well from his liver procedure. No complications, not much pain. We went to a wedding on Sunday and drove home on Monday morning. I've been finishing my NCLEX review to prepare for later in the month and applying to jobs. Dan's been playing lots of Madden football and eating :) Accordingly, I'd say things have been going well.

Until this morning.

Now, we aren't in any emergency or crisis as of yet, just preparing for one. Dan woke up with a bit of belly pain on his left side. Though it isn't nearly as bad as in March, the symptoms are pointing toward a possible bowel obstruction. Thankfully, he isn't feeling really sick, just a little pain and crampy. Rather than freak out, we talked to his surgeon who agreed that the symptoms sound like a very early, mild obstruction. So, Dan will be on clears at home today and tomorrow to see if it can resolve on its own. If it doesn't get completely better, we have an appointment on Monday at Stanford. If it gets worse, Dan needs to be admitted again.

Our biggest concern now is determining where to do the waiting. If it resolves, it'd be nice not to drive all the way back up. Yet, if Dan needs to be admitted, we want him to be at Stanford. So, by tomorrow, we'll decided whether or not to drive up north again. I don't want to wait too long and have Dan feeling miserable all the way up, but Dan doesn't want to jump the gun.

The timing of another bowel obstruction is not great. This is crunch time for me to study for NCLEX (nursing boards), so I can pass the first time. (Yes, I got great grades in college and am a good test taker. That does not imply that I will pass the boards. It is a different beast. Please, do not comment on my odds of "doing fine" right now). Having Dan in the hospital would be a rather large distraction from my focus. Additionally, we need to be preparing to move into another apartment. Once I know where I'm working, we can put a lease on an apartment and move. Yet, with Dan admitted, I'd be doing the looking, leasing and moving without a hubby.

All this to say, Dan needs prayer--a lot of it. God has been with us throughout Dan's suffering and trials. Our prayer is that God would intercede before everything turns bad this time. Pray that whatever obstruction there is would be able to clear on its own. Pray that Dan would be able to recover completely at home. Pray that there would be no need for another trip to Stanford. Pray that if (IF) Dan gets admitted, this hospital stay would be very very short. Better yet, pray that Dan doesn't even have an obstruction at all!
A prayer or two for me to be able to study intently and pass the boards the first time would also be appreciated.

I will obviously keep you all updated, though there may not be any news for a while.

Pray pray pray.

Rough day? A bit.

So, Dan's procedure went well and ended at about 7pm. He had to stay in recovery for a while to wake up, and the doctor decided to keep him overnight to watch for possible complications. Dan's still really tired, though he woke up long enough to eat some jello and crackers. He's not in a lot of pain, but his stomach is wobbly. He won't go so far as to say it's sick feeling, but he's not feeling great. Stupid anesthesia.
Tonight we watch for his ability to keep fluids and food down and make sure his liver isn't bleeding through the wound it got today. As long as Dan can eat breakfast well and isn't actively bleeding tonight, he'll be discharged in the morning.

Amazingly, Dan was given a private room AND I got a cot! What? The first day? Awesome.
I've been sitting here applying for nursing jobs, while he's asleep. The nursing job market is horrible to say the least. Several polite rejections after making it through the last interview process is getting old. You'd think graduating top of the class, having CNA experience and good communication skills would get you somewhere...not quite.

Dan and I are really beginning to feel the strain of the unknown. We need to know where I'm working before we can move, and we have to be out of our apt on June 19th. Prayers for guidance and a job are coveted. I know that God is guiding me to where He wants me, but this time period kinda sucks.

Prayer Requests:
* No bleeding or complications
* Dan's ability to eat and a hearty appetite
* Safe discharge tomorrow
* Continued health of bowels (no obstructions ever)
* Great re-growth of liver tissue
* A job for me...soon!
* Peace in yet another period of unknown

Another Procedure

I have to type this very quickly because the hospital has decided that they don't like people blogging on their wireless...thus, I am only allotted 10 minutes on our blog. Weird? Yes.
Anyway, we're back in Palo Alto (SHC) for Dan's embolization procedure. Things are running late, so Dan just got taken back to the preop phase. We have even spoken to the doctor yet. They will blocking off the right portal vein (blood supply to the right lobe of the liver) to allow for quicker regrowth of his liver. We have been told that this should be just an overnight stay, so we're really hoping and praying for no complications and a fast recovery.
I'll keep you posted when I can, but just be in prayer as the procedure should be starting in about an hour.

Prayer Requests:
* Successful procedure
* No complication
* Open and happy bowels without obstructions
* Safe discharge tomorrow as planned
* NO SURPRISES!!!
* Keeping Dan at home with me in SoCal for a lot longer :)

Steady Freddy

Since I've had a few people mention that they haven't read anything new on the blog for a while, I thought we should probably blog again.

Since the last blog, we have gone to Stanford twice for meetings with the surgeon and the oncologist. Dan's wound is healing, but being difficult. He still has a hole the size of a dime, which has to be packed a couple times a day. Luckily, his second surgical wound looks good...and will hopefully stay that way.

Aside from advising us on the wound situation, the docs also met with us to make a decision regarding the next step. Due to the several complications and setbacks, Dan hadn't truly been able to recover from any of his surgeries and was being a bit pressured to "hurry up" with the next one. Dan and I set about intelligently gathering information and advice from his doctors to assure we were making the right decisions. Honestly, his docs agreed that he needed more time to heal, but still advised surgery as the next step. Accordingly, we are looking at the second half of the surgery late in the summer.

Another good part to the doctors wanting to let Dan heal is that the embolization procedure (cutting off the blood supply to the right side of the liver to test regrowth of the left side) is going to be after graduation. Yay! One less thing to stress about for now.

Did I mention I'm graduating next week? Yes, you read that correctly. Next week! My clinical hours are finished, my research hours are finished, my classes are finished, and I have very little left to do. This is a strange season. My friends are beginning to move away, we are competing against each other for jobs, and we're saying goodbye after 5 years of constant together-ness. Weird and sad, but necessary.

Next week's schedule:
Monday-Class party
Tuesday-Senior Baccalaureate (reflection?)
Wednesday-Epsilon Kappa Epsilon Honor Society Ceremony
Thursday-Pinning Ceremony (Traditional nursing graduation)...a BIG DEAL
Friday-Fun with family!!!
Saturday-Graduation!!!

We have a busy week ahead of us, but it is so exciting. We're looking forward to beginning a new chapter of our lives soon...new apartment, new jobs, no school, no more cancer...God willing.

Prayer Requests:
* No complications or new problems
* No hospitalizations or illnesses until after graduation
* A job! (I've had 4 interviews)
* Safe travels for family coming down
* A safe and uncomplicated embolization procedure

The Latest

We're headed back to Stanford for Dan's first appointment since being released a few weeks ago. It has been nice to have a break from doctor appointments and tests and such. Hopefully, this will be an easy appointment with no need for tests and no need for any hospital admissions. Basically, we're praying for good news and no surprises.

I've still been doing dressing changes 3 times a day, which is getting tiring for both Dan and I. Yet, I'd rather do it at home than have a nurse do it in the hospital. Dan's new incision is healing nicely (finally), while we were within a week of his old wound healing and it opened up a bit again. A blister formed over the scar tissue, the blister popped a couple nights ago, and gave us a bit of a scare since it bled quite a bit. We thought it was healing back up, but today the new tissue split a little again revealing an open hole under his scar. Ugh. Hopefully, it's just a hole in the scar tissue under the scar, and it will heal up completely.

I'm thankful it happened right before a doctor appointment, so I can get the surgeon's advice. Please pray this is just a little hole from the blister and not anything serious at all. Dan's not worried; his dad isn't worried, but of course, I am worried. I've gotten used to Dan actually being home. I really don't want to have him leave again. :(

Anyway, time is speeding by. I have 12 hours (out of 188) of clinical time left. Graduation is in 28 days. Wow. Please be in prayer that Dan and I can share in this next month living together and celebrating the end of nursing school without any complications or hospitalizations. Having my husband with me for senior banquet, Pinning and graduation would be the greatest graduation present imaginable. So, ask God for this good gift with me :)

Contact

Well, it's been 9 days since the last blog... Ashley is still busy and I am still not a good blogger. At least you can surmise that I have not had any surgeries or infections, which is totally awesome! It's been good to be up and about, going out to places like the grocery store, friends' houses, and church. We even went on our first real date since January (Chili's and the new Steve Carrell/Tina Fey movie, Date Night). I'm still trying to get some weight on me and get my legs working better. Other than that, not much to report. I am pretty excited about the 49ers' draft; we should make a serious playoff push this year. Boston is sucking less than last post, but my NHL team (Colorado Avalanche) got eliminated by the hometown heroes, the Sharks. I guess I don't have to root against them now.

The days go by and so does my food. :)

Still Cruisin

Quick blog: it's great to be doing great.

Excited about playoff hockey, not really excited about playoff basketball, the Sox are sucking, and the draft is nigh.

I drove yesterday, and am driving again today to the store and bank.

Went to church yesterday; I had really missed it.

I'm not a real wordy fellow. And my wife knows this, yet she makes me blog anyway!